Being Ing

what a life if you don't make it great by yourself

It's new year... new time...

A year had passed so fast...
A lot of great things I had this year, including got bonus from the office, my South Korea's trip & Eba's great recovery (after his 2nd operation).
There's also some bad things too... but I'd rather think to just forget it all :)

Oh, the best of it all... After movie "2012" & any kind of forecast related with dooms day... it wasn't happen :D

So there's a new time to go on...
To celebrate & then to walk through it...
I just wish for the better 2013...
No resolution... just a bunch of things to do & to reach...

Dear Lord, thank you...
For letting me see the sun rise on 2013.

After consultation with Dr. Hery P, SpBa last night, the operation decide to do on Friday, Nov. 23th' 12, after sholat time.

I ask for permit fromt he office, & we go to opname @ 9 am. Eba start to fasting @ that time & we should wait for the empty VIP room.

About 2 pm, Eba was taken to operation room & the operation start @ 2.30 pm. Just about 1,5 hours, about 4 pm, the nurse call me to wait for Eba wake up. After he woke up & cried, Eba can go back to the room, but then he fall asleep again.

Eba still sleepy for anesthesized

No longer, the doctor come to visit & told me me that if he wake up, I can try to give hime some water. But Eba sleep still until about 7 pm, wake up because his bed wetting. So, I change his operation dress to his own pj's & let Eba sleep again, until the next morning.

Eba woke up @ 6.30 am, look so fresh, tell me that he's going to poop, I wash him, change his clothes & there he goes... the usual Eba... try to jump & pull the hose infusion x_x. I should raise my voice to keep him stay @ his bed.

The morning after

Doctor come visit @ 9 am, looks so glad for Eba' condition & tell me that we can go home.

I can't tell the feeling, to see Eba got infusion & anesthesized, surely not a great expereience for me. But I'm so glad it's all over & wishfully he'll getting better after this all.

Be strong son... Mommy will take care of you & God will do the rest.

Ery, me, Eba & my mom go to Jakarta last Nov. 14th to 21st' 12.

I plan to meet Vivien, my besties from kindergarten, who come from Oz with her family :) We also plan to check Eba's hernia condition, since his hernia looks not remove all over yet. The testis part still inflate every time he's crying. So, we go to check his condition on RS. Harapan Kita & the dokter said that Eba's hernia is still in there, but this time at the right side. It's a very rare condition, only happen to 10% patient... too bad... Eba is be in population x_x

After the check finish, time to have fun. Meet Vivien at Central Park, visit Mangga Dua & even I know Vivien were there too, it's a kind of surprise that we can meet there again even just to say hi...

Eba & nyama @ CP Still @ CP

@ CP, 1st light the giant Xmas tree

Eba swimming time @ c' Lisa's pool estate

Waiting for nyama @ Blok M second hand books market

Time to go home... Waiting taxy with mommy... Eba @ BNI's Soetta terminal 2 lounge

Yeah, yeah... I know it's been 2 days late late... but Ery just arrived at home & I ask the cake to be delivered today... so, the picture time is late too x_x

The cake from Michiko Kitchen

Ko' Tiawan from Gunung Selatan (my office vendor ;p) made this edit from my BB's pp, thank you Ko'...

Pic was edit by ko' Tiawan-GunSel (tx ko')

Today is Eba's 2nd birthday... Actually, we didn't have a celebration, only eat misoa as a wish for his long life, health, luck & wealth.

Since Ery wasn't at home yet, we should postpone the birthday dinner to next Wednesday.

I watch I go to movie yesterday, watch for Alex Cross (good story) & yes, it's on my office hour :p
But, what I want to talk isn't about the movie or the time that I used to watch it, but about people attitude.

Everytime we watch movie, there's always warn to be manner.
No talk (to your colleague, to your friends, to your boyfriend or girlfriend), no phone (means you should turn off or at least switch it into vibrate or silent mode), no recording (piracy, what else) & don't put your feet to the seats in front of you.

But worst... it looks like people who can buy tickets but had not enough good manners.

As my way to keep watching movie on the cinema (yes, I've got addicted to the sound system), I used to go on office hour.
And I hope, when I did it, it means less people in the studio, less noise, less annoying.
Too bad, that's not what was happen.

Usually, if the movie is good (or great) or fame enough, there still a lot of audience.
And it's annoying, since most of them has no manners.
Some of them come late or SO late, 10 or 15 minutes after the movie started.
Need times to walk in the dark & looking for seat.
It's getting worse if their seat is already placed by other audience (that probably don't know how to check the seat number).

After that, if I got unlucky, there'll be a group of girls, who come running & giggling & talking like they own the cinema.
Don't forget the couple that make those cinema as their own world (the other only rent a place x_x).
Or a big (read : fat) guy, who sit in your like & can't stop eating (with noisy) or move his leg, or move in the seat.

Or if the shit isn't enough, there're 1 or 2 or a lot of people, who don't know how to silent or vibrate mode their phone, who still check or (probably) update status on their smart phone & let the phone's light too bright.
This kind of people will talk & talk & talk or answer every ring ring that come.
And never forget, people who ast like they work as a reviewer.
This kind of people, keep talking & telling the story of the movie, or the prequel of it.
Not just the story, but also the actors, the actresses, & so on & so on.

My worst experience was happened about 2 or 3 weeks ago, when I watched Looper (yes, on another office time, lol).
There's a lot of people watching, including a gang of girls who sat in front of me.
Since the first time they in, they never stop talking, giggling, playing with the phone, and idiotly commenting almost every scene.
After 45 minutes, another lady do the "sshhhh..." & said "can't u just shut your mouth"... & what was happen?
The girls is murmuring & start talking, brassy said "why don't u who shut up," & "if you don't like us talking, why don't you just go out & leave."
After that, I do the "ssshhhhh..." & some other audience too... & lucky, they quiet a little bit.
Yup... just a little bit.

At the end of the movie, when the lights on, I checked the girls & they looks "shockingly" smart enough.
I think they're students, not hight school, but university.
And still, they acting like a dumb bitch (yeah, I know it's rude, but hey... this is my blog).
This is bad, actually, this is worst...
People, especially young peps, whould learn how to be manners.
1 thing I learn from life (yes, from my mom, the older people or another source) is, if I want people put some respect on me, I should learn how to respect others.
And thet's the line up for me to start ebeing manners.

How important is an attitude for me? Well... it's important, very...
I put a high limit on myself & I hope I'll have enough from other.
Being in public area, able to pay didn't make you own the place.
It's not always related with "do your own business"... but it's related with "will it hurt others? will it mbe matter for others?."
That's the important of manner your attitude.

This is MY "all the time" quote... as I used to write down on my profile.
As other will write "live to the fullest", I prefer "live like there's no tomorrow".

source : PIQ